Return to Office Is Not About Control. It’s About Trust.
Over the last few years, debates over remote work have centered on flexibility, productivity, and cost savings. But beneath all the spreadsheets, Zoom calls, and badge-swipe arguments lies something more foundational: trust.
The most overlooked reason companies ask employees to return to the office isn’t because they crave control or hate pajamas. It is because building high-performing, high-trust teams is incredibly hard to do through a screen. Moreover, the rewards of a high-trust corporate environment are often worth the sacrifice.
Remote Work Isn’t the Problem. Trust Is.
Plenty of companies have made remote work operational. Projects still ship, and revenue still flows. But quiet attrition, most often felt in the erosion of trust, accountability, and connection, has become harder to ignore.
What’s really at stake with return-to-office mandates isn’t productivity. It’s cohesion. Trust is built on repetition, proximity, and vulnerability, which don’t translate well over Slack.
Psychological Safety: People can admit mistakes, ask for help, or challenge ideas without fear of judgment.
Shared Goals and Norms: Everyone rows in the same direction, with mutual clarity about what “done well” looks like.
Cultural Consistency: The informal cues—the jokes, the rituals, the body language—create a shared sense of identity.
Remote work often degrades these three elements. Without physical proximity, safety becomes politeness, goals get muddled, and culture becomes a Google Doc.
The Office Is a Trust Accelerator
When designed intentionally, the office becomes a “trust accelerator.” It’s not about micromanagement, it’s about building the invisible tissue that holds teams together. Here’s why being physically present still matters:
Spontaneity builds trust: Research shows unplanned interactions spark idea-sharing and deepen relationships. These are hard to manufacture digitally.
Non-verbal communication is key: Over 70% of communication is non-verbal. In-person meetings allow team members to calibrate tone, intent, and nuance in ways that email or video can’t.
Observational learning matters: Junior team members learn norms, skills, and decision-making not just by being told what to do, but by seeing how others do it.
Remote-Only Trust Is a Privilege of Long-Standing Teams
There’s a difference between maintaining trust and building it.
Remote work can sustain trust within long-established teams that have built strong relationships. But building trust from scratch, onboarding new hires, forming new teams, and navigating conflict is exponentially harder without in-person interaction.
If leaders frame return-to-office as a control play, exemplified by the idea that executives “want to see people working,” they’ll lose the culture war. But if they position it as a strategic investment in trust, it becomes a value proposition.
Effective return-to-office strategies should not be focused on mandating time at a desk. They’re about creating intentional moments that restore connection, reinforce culture, and rebuild trust.
That looks like:
Cross-team collaboration sessions
Strategic planning meetings in person
Informal social rituals (lunches, standups, walk-and-talks)
Mentorship pairings that meet face-to-face weekly
The goal isn’t to recreate 2019. It’s to build an environment where trust isn’t assumed, but actively earned.
Leaders Must Go First
Building trust is a leadership function. If executives aren’t visible, aren’t available, or aren’t modeling vulnerability, no mandate will work.
As Simon Sinek said, “A team is not a group of people who work together. A team is a group of people who trust each other.”
In the return-to-office era, leaders must be physically and emotionally present. That means:
Walking the floor
Asking questions and listening deeply
Being open about mistakes or uncertainties
Investing in face time, not just face time policies
Hybrid Can Work—But Only with Intent
Hybrid work has become the compromise of choice. But it won’t magically rebuild trust unless it’s intentional.
That means aligning when teams come in and why. It also means designing office space that supports collaboration, not rows of empty desks. The office shouldn’t feel like punishment; it should feel like value.
Organizations like Atlassian and Salesforce have invested in “team days,” where cross-functional groups come together weekly or bi-weekly to brainstorm, solve, and connect. Others, like Shopify, have reimagined their real estate footprint to prioritize collaboration hubs over individual desks.
Hybrid only works when the in-office moments are worth it.
Trust Low? Productivity Will Follow.
Leaders obsessed with productivity should care more about trust than timecards. Low-trust teams:
Avoid conflict
Withhold feedback
Hoard information
Burn out faster
Leave more often
In contrast, high-trust teams are more resilient, creative, and committed, even in volatile markets.
Return to office isn’t about reversing remote work. It’s about returning to relationships.
In a world increasingly mediated by screens, the companies that succeed will be the ones that understand this simple truth: trust scales best face to face.
That doesn’t necessarily mean five days a week or rigid 5 day a week mandates. But it means asking: How do we create the kind of culture where people trust each other enough to speak up, collaborate boldly, and stay for the long term?
That’s not a facilities issue. That’s a leadership issue.
And the office used right isn’t a cost center. It’s your most powerful trust-building tool.
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AuthorGordon Lamphere J.D.
Gordon is a licensed Illinois & Wisconsin Real Estate Broker, who manages the commercial sales and leasing team. Gordon also leads Van Vlissingen and Co’s media marketing team. He is an honors graduate of St. Mary’s College of Maryland and holds a Juris Doctorate from Tulane University Law School.